How Do I Keep Someone From Seeing That I’ve Viewed Their Profile?

Dear onenightfriendfree,

Today I stumbled across a profile of someone I know and I was wondering if there’s any way to keep this person from getting notified of this. The thing is that this person happens to be the ex-boyfriend of one of my best friends, and I’m afraid that if he sees that I looked at his profile that he might tell her. I wouldn’t want something like this to mess with a good friendship.

What should I do?

~Sally Stuck


We get a few inquiries a week about people wanting to know how to keep other people from being able to see that they’ve viewed their profile.

Keep in mind that if the person you’re browsing is not a VIP member they will not be able to see that you’ve viewed their profile. Only VIP members can see who has viewed their profile.

If they are VIP and you want to keep them from viewing your profile after you check them out, you can block them. Blocking someone prohibits them from viewing your profile information. They will still be able to see your profile picture, however, so if you’re concerned about them recognizing you just post a picture that isn’t as recognizable to play it safe (don’t post a fake profile picture, you run the risk of having your profile suspended for violation of our terms of service).

-Team onenightfriendfree

Superbowl Videos on onenightfriendfree - You’d Think People Would Be A Little More Excited

We scrounged up some Superbowl videos from last night! Not quite as exciting as we had hoped, people were looking generally unenthused in many of these videos. Of course, many of these folks looked like they were watching the Superbowl home alone.

The superbowl, watched by approximately 40% of American households, should be a party and people should be drinking, ideally beer, together! They should be rooting for a team that is probably from a city that is not in close proximity to them. They should, as a group, be critiquing the highly anticipated commercial advertisements. And someone should be sending regular updates to twitter so everyone knows what team you’re rooting for and the fact that you thought Bud Light’s commercial in the 1st Quarter was a total FAIL.

This is supposedly a post Superbowl celebratory chat session. Hmm. Maybe they joined the wrong chat by accident. They look about as excited as a cripple would approaching a staircase.


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Free Dating Advice: When To Go Back To His Place

How many dates do you go on before you accept his invitation back to his place?

(photo by lans-bejbe)

Dating Tips:  How To Make A Relationship Last

If you’re looking for a long term relationship, it’s best to wait at least three dates before letting him tour your lady garden, possibly a few more, before you put out. This dating advice for women is given for a number of reasons.

Firstly, you don’t want to seem easy, right? Do guys want to marry a girl who puts out on the first date? Probably not, so keep it under control and you’re likely to make a good first impression.

Secondly, if you’re looking for a match made in heaven, sex isn’t the only thing you’ll need to assess. A preemptive romp in the sheets can color your ability to make a wise decision about your date’s potential. Women release a chemical called oxytocin when they have sex which often causes them to bond with the person who was present when the chemical was released. If you get attached before you are able to assess your match’s mental, emotional and financial capabilities, you might find yourself in an a bad relationship that could be hard to extricate yourself from.

Dating Tips:  How To Keep Things Casual

If you’re just looking to tickle your fancy because you’re trying to get over an old flame, or you’re just not at a point in your life where you’re ready to commit, then go for the gold on date one, you have nothing to lose.

It’s always important to make sure that you’re both on the same level in regards to commitment, however. Even boys can get attached. To avoid any hurt feelings over miscommunication make sure that your intentions are clearly stated before rushing into something where someone might get hurt.

Webcam Dating:  Meet People Online

Video chat is the best way to meet new people for long or short term relationships, friendships and activity partners. Meet people on onenightfriendfree for FREE, live, hookup.

What are Lady Cougars and Where to Find Them

Today I read a survey that said an increasing amount of women in Britain are going after younger men. I wonder if that’s actually increasing, or if women are becoming more open about their sexual preferences and desires in the years since the release of the widely known lady cougar film, The Graduate.

What is a Lady Cougar?

According to Urban Dictionary:

A 35+ year old female who is on the “hunt” for a much younger, energetic, willing-to-do-anything male.

“Hot” and “MILF” also come to mind when I think of cougars.

What Do Lady Cougars Like About Younger Men?

Women supposedly reach their sexual peak around the age of 30, while men reach theirs in their twenties so it makes sense that older women would find their best sexual match among a group of twenty-something men.

Many people believe that women develop higher levels of confidence in their early thirties; levels they might not be capable of reaching in their twenties due to a number of society and physiological reasons.

The cognitive functioning of the human brain doesn’t fully develop until one reaches the age of twenty-five. For women this could mean making poor decisions about their sexual partners, leading to lowered confidence and awkward match-making situations. As they mature they are able to provide themselves with more satisfying partners. Combined with more emotional stability they gain the confidence to let go of self-conscious behavior and perform better under the sheets.

Where to Find Cougars

Most cougars hang out in big cities where there are lots of young men to choose from, hence sprouting the recently popular term “urban cougar”. You can do a cougar search in your area to find lady cougars close to you.

12 Days of Dating Before Christmas: onenightfriendfree’s Holiday Dating Guide - Day One

We wanted to offer our beloved WOOers and anyone else who might happen to stumble upon this blog a complete guide to dating over the holidays. No matter what holiday you’re celebrating you’ll be sure to find at least a few tips that will make your Holidays merry and bright.

onenightfriendfree’s Holiday Dating Guide - Day 1

Use Mistletoe to Your Advantage

(Photo by Little Hunter)

The more the better. Don’t limit yourself to hanging it up at your house. Make everyone’s holiday a little bit brighter by hanging mistletoe up all around town. Put some up at work. Be a little sneaky Christmas elf and put some up at church or  your local grocery store and watch people blush as they look up to find themselves under the spell of the magic plant.

Obviously you should reap some of the kissing benefits as well. Make sure you think of some creative excuses to hang out underneath the mistletoe. Don’t forget to apply chapstick and rinse your mouth out with Listerine to increase the chances of you getting your smooch on well into the New Year.

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